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Yeah right enough cause he always seemed like a good dad tbf ! See I said to him how’s ur daughter and he was like oh she’s good my mum took her shopping yesterday, and he’s always off work on a Sunday but I wonder why his mum took her instead of him
Well if he's anything like my husband, who hates shopping, it probably makes him mad
Yeah maybe he doesn't like it or his mum wanted to spend some time with her? Obviously if he has visitation and it's the only time he sees her... His mum may say can I take her for a hour or 2 just so they get to bond
Have you come right out and asked how often he sees his daughter?
Personally, It’s pretty off putting to me too! And it’s one of the many reasons I personally swore off dating men with child(ren) when I was single. When I was single& dating, I have so many example of meeting good men bt I remember being immediately turned off if they told me they had kids, Especially kids they don’t see. Major red flag to me. I don’t think there is any circumstance that shud stop a parent from seeing their kid or being in their child’s life! Like what is the reason why he isn’t seeing his child? Men really don’t understand the damage it does to kids both sons & daughters when they choose to not be present parents
But is it ALL the time? Or is it just that his mom takes the kid to do things sometimes? Maybe he thought she would have more fun with his mom because they are girls going to go do girl things (shopping). If it's constant, I see the issue, but if it's only sometimes, I see no issue. Grandparents like alone time with their grandkids too. Why dont you ask him how often he gets/sees his daughter? He might see her less now that school is in? Does he only have her on the weekends?
Well it depends on why... Is the baby mama stopping him for whatever reason? Maybe find out the reason why he doesn't before you find it off putting as it maybe not through choice...