Husband rant

Does anyone else feel like their husband uses weaponized incompetence when it comes to helping and general tasks in the house, especially when it comes to caring for your kiddo? Don't get me wrong, I do EVERYTHING for our home but sometimes NEVER get a break. And if I ask for it, I feel like the bad guy. I haven't gotten to sleep more than 6 hours in a night since I've stopped breastfeeding and since my son was born. me thinking on my Husband's day off he would take our son and do his morninf routine, especially to just build some sort of bond with him.. Nope. But does he come to me and ask me if I'm ok? Almost as if he's looking for me to get angry with him and explode... yes, yes he did.