Mom guilt
I’m pretty sure my 3y is autistic and ADHD at first I didn’t pick up the signs and thought it was a speech delay and the fact that he had a baby brother otw but we are almost 2 months in he still barely speaks and just wants to spend his day whining,climbing, into everything and jumping on everything. He won’t listen to anything I say I keep redirecting and use quiet time but nothing is working. I hate to admit this but lately I have rather spend all my time with the baby then my 3y old
Sending so much love your way. I know how it feels my son has autism and adhd and when my daughter was born, he was jealous and didn't know how to communicate this, so his behavior was everywhere and still is. And with your baby being three, it's harder. The only advice I can give (which is not easy) is to take breaks for yourself. Also, plan days with your son only and give him lots of love and positive attention. I gave my son (he was 6 so I know it's way different but it helped) a baby doll so when I was doing things with sister he could do those to his baby