need some support

any other moms dealing with the pain of watching your old self die becoming a mother? it’s hitting me pretty hard right now. how did you deal with it? how are you dealing with it? and please no comments about loving motherhood or that it was worth it. that isnt my situation and it would hurt to hear. motherhood isnt coming naturally or easy for me and i just cant cope

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I need more... what was this life.. what are the struggles. Is it u just had a bunch of support and validation doing what u were.. And motherhood is more lonely.. I need more.

There is usually a teason for these things.. and it's usually not u.. or the child.. it's usually support and environment.

I have an incredible supportive husband who is very hands on and helpful, I am also blessed with a healthy baby however I can relate to this woman, you're not alone.

@Sophie can I get more information to ur very real perspective.. I was just giving possibles.. I said I needed more information. Lols

There is also it's just a big change And it's a whole new person. How close do we normally connect to whole new people? we instantly have to give up parts of self for.. cuz they just need so much. Some can it comes naturally.. usually family environment previously helps here.. I wasn't just talking current. But I wasn't saying bad perspective. I was just trying to understand it. These things are really built over time.. from ur life. I have no time information to work from. So I was heavily guessing. Not trying to say wrong or bad.