Circumcision problem

Well the reason why it’s done is because if they don’t have enough extra skin there when they grow up and their penis gets bigger and the skin around doesn’t then it’ll cause pain when they get hard or even pee. Another reason is infection but that’s only if they’re a dirty individual lol.

I think if he's decided to be an active part of the baby's life he has every right to have a say. How he initially felt doesn't matter here. It's his child too and he's allowed an opinion on important decisions. I'm not saying he's automatically right, just that it's not fair to say he's not allowed to have any say. As far as the decision itself I'm of the mindset that I don't have a penis, I can't understand what it's like to live with a penis, even if I do the research and know all the science I can't fully understand the impact of either side of making that decision, so a man's view of it holds a lot more weight than mine. I have 2 boys and my partner made the final call on circumcision for them. We discussed all the factors and made sure we were both comfortable with the choice we made but in the end his opinion on it was a way bigger factor than mine, and I'm very happy with what we chose

@Eviee do you have any resources to read about the growth restrictions? I've never heard that before 🤔

@Kai You can look it up or discuss it with a doctor, I did.

@Eviee If this were true then why do many other countries not do it? It’s incredibly rare in the UK unless for religious reasons and if this were remotely true it would be done on the NHS as routine.

@Kai that’s because it’s bs lol Her dr told her that because it’s his opinion. Look up statistics because they say other wise

@Eviee I think you should do some more research as to why people began doing circumcisions because that’s not it. It has evolved into an agenda where drs just tell people their opinion on it without looking at statistics. Men without it are not at any more risk of issues than the men with. There are several issues connected to circumcision as well but I see you didn’t mention those. You told someone else to do some research and it doesn’t appear that you have even done your own

@Tosha Girl I do not care. 😂

@Eviee why even comment then?

@Tosha Correction. I do not care what you have to say especially when you’re trying to be a smart ass lol. I comment for the poster not for the folks in the comments who like to tag people to try to seem like they’re “big shit” You think it’s bs that’s your opinion. Keep it to yourself or tag the other mother who tagged me and got ignored as well. The only reason I’m giving you the time of day is because you think you did something here 😂 I gave the Information I was given by multiple pediatricians. Simple. Go about your merry way. If you have something to say in regard to the poster’s question then share it. Don’t sit here and tag me trying to make yourself look good. Because I’m not the one, I have no issues putting someone in their place. Kay? Have a goodnight. ✌🏽

@Eviee you really think you did something too? So your pride was hurt and that’s why you’re mouthing off now? Lmao you certainly aren’t putting anyone in their place😂😂😂 You’re wrong. It’s not a matter of opinion when there’s literally science to prove what I said. This mother, the OP literally stated that she didn’t see it necessary and you came here trying to school her with incorrect information. That’s embarrassing LMAO

@Tosha No, I’m not embarrassed 😂 You sound like a child. I said what I said, go about your day.

@Kai i only know the growth restrictions thing is true bc i had an ex bf who had that and we literally never had sex bc him getting hard hurt so bad (obviously that relationship didn’t last long lol) but it was actually really sad i felt bad for him

@Annie it is extremely rare though. It’s not something that just happens all the time. lol

@Tosha no totally and i wouldn’t base getting ur child circumcised of the fact that they *might* have that issue either just i’ve experienced being with a man who had that problem and i had never heard of it either (this was before i had children obviously so in like high school) i wonder how he’s doing now though lol 😆

Tell your husband it takes away sexual sensation and it's barbaric and wrong. You could also share with him the story of the Olympic runner whose circumcision was botched. I'm sexually pretty experienced. Uncircumcised men can keep erections like they're taking a breath. Don't mutilate your child.

Most medical reasons for circumcision have less invasive alternatives. The one mentioned where the skin is too tight sounds like a deformity. That's probably not going to happen for your kid. There's also a large group of men upset that their parents made the decision for them. I would search that. If your son wants it done he can make that choice on his own as an adult.

My kids have had no issues being uncircumcised.