gifts
so my fiancés birthday is tomorrow and i already talked to him about what he wants and we agreed that he can just buy something on his own he’s been wanting and grab drinks this weekend. and if he wants anything for christmas i can buy it in secret and get it to him as a surprise. i feel like being a sahm with no income of my own really takes the joy out of giving my partner gifts. i feel guilty giving him a gift he paid for😩 anyone else in the same boat?
Show your support
You can cook him a really nice meal and dessert.
Yes it is so hard 🫤. His birthday was this last week. We went together and he bought himself an iPad for his gift and that doesn’t feel like it’s from me. But while he was gone for work I decorated our room a little bit and made him a card. I cleaned up his desk for him. I hung up balloons that said happy birthday and his age. I also made flan because he doesn’t like cake. And I made sure to have our toddler down for a nap right when he was getting home and I hopped in the shower had him join and I washed his hair and body and did some other things to him 😜
Trending in our community
Yup its so hard to shop for mine that its almost easier to just let him get whatever he wants