Staying with a cheater…

I stayed bc I was young and believed that “everyone makes mistakes and can change” that was like 5 or 6 yrs ago. But I now believe in “once a cheater, always a cheater” There was no light at the end of the tunnel. It just got worse. And I actually kept forgiving him and trying with the relationship. One because we ended up having a baby together and two bc of the reason I said above ^ I also kept making excuses for him (like being under stress, being young) which was dumb. You live and you learn I guess🤷🏼‍♀️ I now would never give a cheater a second chance. & I believe that if someone that tells you that they love you, can cheat on you? Then they can probably do it again or do even worse than that later.

And I’m not saying once a cheater, always a cheater just because of my one experience. I’ve seen it plenty times with family members and friends. Once you do something like that, then you can do it again and you probably will.

I did and I can honestly say it was the worse relationship I’ve ever been in. I didn’t believe a word he said, I was an anxious mess because of it. It’s not worth your mental health x

I ended up in a women’s refuge with my 1 year old and my 3 week old I lost my house and everything but none of that mattered because I was free and felt safe the is help out their honestly the refuge will re house you and you can choose any where best decision I made free from all that toxic behaviour