Advice

Hi. Please not too much judgement. My son's 4 now, he's in part time school,he's been going since September , so definitely later than alot of other children. I don't know anyone his age so he's not the most social kid! I've tried putting him into clubs lately, but he doesn't want to participate in most of it, cries, says he's tired as an excuse, won't listen to anyone. I'm going to keep taking him to these clubs, just wanted to find ways to make it easier ?? Really struggling with the tantrums, it's embarrassing and just upsetting seeing him like it