What @Neena said. He seems to get off on getting a rise out of you. He knows exactly what he is doing and probably loves keeping you slightly off balance. Stand up for yourself. Stop responding to it. Just say - ‘I’m not playing your silly games anymore.’ Then leave it at that. He will get angry and try to escalate in another way. Then you’ll see the true monster behind the mask.
@Hopeful I’m gonna just say I don’t know then walk into a different room
He's playing mind games to keep you on edge. He wants you emotionally exhausted because then you're easier to manipulate. This is a real tactic that abusers do and is a form of gaslighting
He doesn't hate u, girl he just uses u like a servant cause he lazy stop looking for his ish. As a matter of fact, throw small stuff away and actually start lying when people play games with u get wise, not mad. Sit back and relax while he goes crazy looking. That will teach him how to be responsible. u have a man-child on your hand. Don't baby him set boundaries
If it's everyday he's gotta go. Gaslighting and calling you names let alone implying your stealing is a hard to overcome!
Yea sorry girl, but your husband hates you. That’s not normal behaviour at all and he is taking his shit out on you on purpose. I would be looking at taking the next steps to get that divorce started because he’s not going to change. Don’t try and understand his thought process - when you hate someone there is no reasoning with them. Don’t keep having more regrets, time to get rid and move on. When you find someone who truly loves you, worships the ground you walk on and does everything in their power to keep you happy, you’ll look back on this period and wonder why you stayed with this awful man for so long.