3 year old will **never** play independently

We’ve tried everything to encourage him but he never wants to play quietly alone, not even for 2 minutes. How can we encourage him to play alone sometimes? He has the most lovely toys, which he loves but it’s always “muuuuum can you play with me”, I know someone will say he’s after connection/attention etc but he gets it 24/7 from us, literally undivided attention and connection. He’s pretty much always been like this, i can’t be sat with him all the time, it’s not realistic :( we have a 4 month old too. Anyone else dealing with the same??
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My boy is nearly 4 and very similar. We have a 10 month old as well so it can be a bit of a challenge. I've just accepted that my eldest will always prefer someone to play with him rather than on his own. I think children either like playing by themselves or not. He occasionally has very short bursts of independent play but it's a rarity!

All I can say is .. sammmeeee. Although I have noticed if we have some music on in the background or one of her Tonies on she will sometimes play better by herself. Maybe worth a try!

Same we have a 9 month old as well I’m with her and Dad is with him playing. Very occasionally he will play alone at home. He is with his Nan one day a week and will play independently for long periods of time while she cooks etc but never with us around it’s weird!

Same with my 3 yo and I did post similar question few months back.

@A_M 🌺🌈 agree! Background music or stories really helps with my little boys play. I’ve sometimes told him in not able to play and he needs to play. He’s gone from no independent play to now starting to do a little each day!

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