Debating with husband need quick answers!!

False absolutely false!

I def check out guys and I might let out an internal daaamn but I’m not thinking “I’d hit that” lol. Gotta ask my hubby about it when he gets out of the shower.

My husband says no but he would probably never admit it if it was true anyway lol

He does look at females. I also look at females and men. But he says no to asking himself if he’s gonna “hit that”. He’s only hitting one thing for years and that’s me 😂 but we can look at people, appreciate that they’re hot, pretty, good looking- whatever. It doesn’t go beyond that though. “Oh he’s cute” and then it’s “ughhh I need a coffee” 😂 in my head anyway.

he’s wrong. not all men are pigs like that lol. and sure you may notice a good looking person, but if your first thought is “i wanna fuck them” then you have issues i think

I don’t need to put my eyes to the floor to not be tempted. Not all men look at every woman that walks by, and if they do they’re disrespectful.

My husband would say no, he's said he looks at everyone men and women and yea some people are attractive. 🙄 He's also a lying cheater though, ive caught him. So be careful friend 🫶

I think as humans we all notice if someone’s attractive, they attract. But it doesn’t go farther than that for us. Me and my husband can both be like oh she’s pretty and our brains move on.

My husband said absolutely not. Mostly he doesn’t really pay attention (he does have ADD tho so that checks out lol). Said occasionally he will notice someone is attractive but does not go to wanting to have sex with them. I see attractive men sometimes too. But I’ve almost never thought “yeah I’d like to have sex with him”.

If someone is particularly attractive I might think about what they look like naked or something but nah I don’t automatically think if I’d sleep with every male I see or interact with haha most of them are so bland I don’t even look at them plus like you said I just avert my gaze most of the time when I see a guy especially if he’s looking at me because I just don’t want to talk or give anyone any reason to interact because in my experience half of the men out there are so delusional they’ll think a one second eye contact exchange means you want them😂

We make jokes like can we get this one to come home with us 🤣

Attractive men will catch my attention but not all men do. I do not think about fucking them but I do kinda get this fuzzy tingling feeling inside like 😍

As soon as he said females I already knew lol

Both myself and my husband would think “that’s an attractive person” but not “would I personally be intimidate with them”.

Yeah this is a no for me and my husband

Absolutely not. I know for a fact my husband and I only have eyes for each other. Even when he’s at work, when a female coworker makes small talk with him, he just talks about me and our son. We’re both extremely loyal.

Even when I was single I didn’t look at people I was attracted to and think would I hit? Lol…just acknowledged and moved right on 😂

I point out girls.. when out with my partner. It doesn’t bother me that he does the same. I am secure in my relationship though.

My man doesn't do that and I don't look at guys anymore thinking uh I'd hit that. Your man sounds a bit like an ahole the way he talks

As a Brazilian, don’t let him go 😂

My husband would probably say he doesn’t but I think he’s a damn liar. I definitely do but not because I actually would, I wouldn’t cheat. I don’t think that many guys are actually attractive physically I’m more of a personality person, but in my younger years i was promiscuous..

My husband said that he never thought of it like that. He says it only gets his attention if is very impressive features. Im not easily entertained by men at all so I hardly pay attention.

Noticing someone’s beauty/attractiveness is a human thing. But automatically thinking “Oo I would have sex with her” or “Hell no” is absolutely absurd. Shows how he views women

Me and my partner don’t look at others in a sexual way There’s a difference between being able to make a judgment about objective attractiveness of someone and if you’re attracted to them. I’m just not attracted to anyone else than him

If every time he looks at a woman he thinks about whether he’d have sex with her or not then he’s gross. You can notice people are attractive but … Like … every time? Every woman he sees? His first thought is ‘is she bangable?’ Is he a teenager or something?? Grow the fuck up and have some respect. Jesus.

It’s quite normal to notice other people and find them good looking. However, not everyone does and it’s definitely not normal to think of doing the nasty with them. My partner doesn’t look at other women and I don’t look at other men.

@Victoria~ 😂😂

Thank you all for commenting and asking your husbands ! I'll share with my husband and update what he says soon lol

I’m a firm believer that anyone can recognize another person as attractive, but it’s a personal choice on whether or not to be attractED to them. The moment any person goes directly to the question of whether they would be intimate with them or not, they are making a conscious choice to cross that line. (My husband agrees with me on this, by the way.) And I can say with 100% certainty that neither he nor I have that question or anything even CLOSE cross our minds just by looking at someone.

Lovely ladies my husband is officially a pig 🙄 he disagreed with everyone and said no it's completely normal and every human does it. Male and female. Major ick

I don’t do this. When I notice it’s a man I don’t even bother staring for more than a second. I just asked my man and he said no. When we’re in public and we see women he always looks at me and grabs me and kisses me right in front of them.. idk how to feel about it.. Sometimes I feel like he’s only doing it because theres a women there but I’d rather him do that then pay any attention to her.

Female humans? Ask him to clarify if he means women… Honestly my ex (ex for a reason) thought and said the same, especially more towards the end of our relationship. I absolutely never think of men I see in a sexual way. Maybe once a month or so (when I know I’m ovulating) I’ll think that. But it’s so rare I wouldn’t even consider it the same thing. Maybe that’s the kind of “females” his friends hang around round with. The kind of “females” that just want to have no stings sex and say those things to the “males” they are with. It’s kinda pick me if you ask me! Honestly, I’ve never discussed how sexy men or who we want to have sex with when I see my friends. Probably not since I was 18. Is your husband 18?? Not going to lie, that’s such an ick. But also what he said about Brazil also an ick (unsure why men have this thing about Brazil? Is it porn or something?) and a red flag. Ick icky ick. That would dry me up like a desert…

@Emma I didn’t know about this thing about Brazil until I moved to the US and had men literally look at me like Im a beef on a kabob once they find out Im Brazilian. Apparently we are more sexually open than half of the world. Most women will have sex without strings attached or even names. Think about a strip club, our regular parties are very similar with half naked women. Of course is not like that in the entire country but the foreigners usually go to Rio or Sao Paulo and that is the vibe. I hate to say it like that but compared to other countries, Brazilian women can show as very easy for men 😭

@Ana Moore portuguesa aqui!!! ❤️

@Rafaela Tão bom encontrar alguém que fala nosso idioma aqui ❤️

@Ana Moore it’s crazy! My best friend since birth is half Brazilian and she’s had so many men change on her once they find out she’s Brazilian (and only half!) It’s definitely what you mentioned then, I assumed porn! It makes it worse that the poor poster’s husband wants to go to Brazil so badly!!

i’m sorry incognito 😭 he sounds like an ass

An honest man will agree with your husband… a man that doesn’t want problems will say “only eyes for his wife” 😅

@Shirene I actually agree with this part 💯. However it’s the “women (or females, as he likes to say) think the same as men”. I just don’t think we think the same as them. I also think there’s levels to men’s perversion. Every man thinks about having sex with other women, without a doubt. However, to think about sex with every single women screams sex or porn addiction to me.

I have actually met a man who refrains from watching porn, masturbating and he ended a 7-month long celibacy because he met a woman he actually genuinely cared for. He has admitted that men are hardwired to think sex differently than women and majority of the time it is more often than women. Buuuuuut, as an actual man it's his job to use his energy in more practical ways than just spreading his seed. Honestly, I think your husband really needs to open his mind more to other things than just sex. Tell him to read a book or watch a documentary. 🤣😂