Married but feeling alone in this

Is it just me or do other people that are married feel like a single parent? I do everything for our kids and I'm lucky if he changes a nappy. Also I'm feeling very alone. So my husband works all day comes home and, as you do you want to talk. Off load about the kids etc. I'm talking and I just stop in the end as he's never listening. He's more interested in his phone or the tv. Take just now I know it's 2.30am but, our 12 week old is having trouble sleeping at the min. He's all stuffy. So he's sleeping on me. Baby just starts screaming and he wakes up say calm down to the baby. I'm talking to him about the baby and what's wrong and he just goes back to sleep. It's making me feel like complete shit.