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I don’t even know what to title this as.
So yesterday my husband asked me if I can wash his coat for work I said yes and I completely forgot to dry it :( anyway I woke up because he said “fucking (my name)” and honestly that made me so angry. I tried holding it in biting my tongue not to start and argument but I lost it. I got upset because the way he gets mad and said “f**king (my name) triggered something in me as if I am a child and he’s treating me like one because I forgot to dry his coat. Today we leave for his work trip and I told him he should pack his own clothes and I wasn’t going to do it for him like I previously said I would because he was upset about his coat not being dried. And said I sound “s*upid” he said it out loud for kids to hear and basically everyone at home with us, his dad. He called me s*upid like 3 or 4 times. Not once did I insult him or call him names. Now I just feel awkward around here like… idk of course it was my fault I forgot to dry his coat but the way he just got upset triggered me… maybe I’m just being a baby idk just don’t have anyone to talk to about this… also I am a SAHM and he mentioned how I basically stay at home to do these things which I understand. I bring no income but it’s the way and his tone of saying it that gets me feeling a certain way.
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That sounds like an extremely abusive man! Whether you’re a stay at home or not. That doesn’t matter.
I understand both side. But tell him that's not okay. Stand up for yourself. Don't take a childish route as you say. Stick to the things you said you would do but also tell him this won't go down this way again. Run your house and man
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Leave he’s abusive and the more you sit around and wait for him to disrespect you again he will definitely take the opportunity leave scare him with divorce at this point there is only so many things you can do but if you leave his asa now he can learn from his mistakes or find another person to mistreat it’s probably the way his father treated women in his life now he thinks it’s ok also id start snooping around in his phone emails etc bet men only start acting dumb all if sudden when they think that they can get away with shit good luck