Struggling with loneliness and isolation
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I just take baby everywhere I go or let hubby take him and go to the gym, friends, shopping...
My girl typically sleeps good anytime we go out & isn’t very bothered by what’s going on as long as she’s a had a feeding before we leave, I can get 2-4hrs of social time out of the house! It does take longer to get out of the house but it happens eventually! If you’re able/comfy going out alone, just go on walks around the mall or a couple shops or coffee/lunch with friends!
I’m the same as well. I can’t stand being at home alone for long periods of time, it really gets to me. I need to get out of the house, even if it’s just for a short walk around the park or mall. I have an 11 week old as well. I always make sure to go out after he’s had his feed, that way he isn’t too cranky. He is still adjusting to the stroller, he hates it and just won’t sleep in it. But I’m persisting in hopes he eventually gets used to it 😅
My social life has only got better. Go to classes, go for coffee with friends, have people over! Babies sleep anywhere, especially if you get them used to it. Don't let it rule your life. Incorporate it in!
If baby sleeps on the boob, you can go out whenever you want, baby will fall asleep anywhere
I was same and just went out somewhere every day ! Never been busier :)
Yes I felt the same way! It only got better when baby started interacting with me.
I totally understand what you mean - my little one is only 4 weeks old but the huge difference in my social life from before versus now is so hard. Do you have a baby carrier? Or does baby sleep well in a pram? I’ve found meeting friends for walks and take away coffee works well because my girl sleeps so well in her pram, so I know she’s safe and not missing out on rest but equally I’m getting the social contact I crave!