We had a silicone fork and spoon set but my LG kept wanting to use the same as us, so we just give her a small metal fork now which she much prefers x
Honestly I got little mini forks from Poundland four in a set and v they work great!
We have the Munchkin spoon and fork set (I like the fact the spoon is a bit deeper so stuff stays on it) and have just moved from plastic to metal as plastic forks aren't great at spearing food.