Am I wrong?

This is something that will really affect our relationship and I know he’ll be so mad I snooped but it’s something that NEEDS to stop or I can’t do this anymore. I’ve never felt more alone because it’s something I can’t tell any of my friends and family about. Mostly out of embarrassment because I put up with it and I don’t want everyone to hate him

If you can’t trust each other, your relationship won’t grow and will become negative for both of you

He’s only gonna keep lying 😕 and that lack of trust will always have you feeling like you have to snoop to get the truth

Your not wrong for looking, but now you’ve gotta use the info you now have to make less painful & smarter decisions

The longer I sit here the more I’m thinking it’s my fault and feel sick to my stomach to bring it up. When I know it’s nothing I have done and it’s something he needs to want to do for his family

Don’t make the mistake of saving his character, especially if he continues to do wrong by you. People will find out the truth eventually. I felt so stupid for lying about my ex for years and as it turns out, everyone else already knew he was a scum bag. I went that entire time thinking everything was my fault and only once I healed did I realize the truth 🤷🏼‍♀️

IMO you shouldn't have to "snoop" if your together you both should have nothing to hide and not care if your partner looks in your phone. Yeah I've said some mean things about my partner in anger before but I'm not immature enough to deny access to my phone because of it. We have a better relationship knowing we CAN go into eachothers phone and we never actually do but the option being there gives us that much more trust in the relationship. I can't imagine being with someone who doesn't share this mindset. Don't feel guilty but maybe bring it up when your 100% ready for whatever consequences will follow that conversation. I wish you the best and hope you can get past this difficult time in your life❤️

No your not wrong for snooping I’ve done this so many tokes and when I wanted to confront him I was always worried telling him how I know and that I looked on his ohone blah blah and bc he’s always be like why you checking and turn it on me. But after like 3-4 times I thought no f you you’ve done this

Your wrong for snooping. If you can’t trust your partner or don’t believe him than you should split from him. Whether your suspicions were right or wrong, snooping violates any form of trust in your relationship and in your partner. Any relationship that lacks trust will not be successful.

Don’t wanna be nosey or anything but just wanted to come back and check to see how you’re doing ❤️‍🩹

@indiiii thank you that’s sweet. I still haven’t brought it up I got to nervous when it came time but I keep thinking about it