Pregnancy and a teenager
So I am only around 5 weeks pregnant and I haven't yet mentioned it to my 14yr old as I wanted to wait until I was at least 10 weeks as I am high risk for misscariages.
But my sister In law mentioned it to My 14yr old yesterday that I was pregnant and it really upset me as I told everyone not to tell him..
She hasn't asked me yet but if the convo comes up what can I say to her? I don't want to tell her I am and God forbid something goes wrong with me I wanted to tell her in My own time and see her reaction.
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@Olivia I had a misscariage 2 months ago and we didn't tell her I was pregnant but she came to the appointment I had in the hospital for a scan after the misscariage and she was questioning what a misscariage was, my daughter has autism so we don't like telling her to much information, she thinks when I'm pregnant she's pregnant too because shes my baby this is the reason I didn't want to tell her, I have a feeling she's going to ask today as she was saying things like " I'd love a baby brother"
I'd let her/him know basically what you said here. I feel like that's old enough to understand high risk and if someone else told them it seems especially like you're hiding something now. You'd have to hide a miscarriage too