Pissed off

So my nieces birthday party is today and now we’re not going. I get that my husband is tired because he works overnights but I have been stuck in this stupid fucking house of with a screaming baby and I haven’t had any social interaction with my friends. Sucks for me I guess.

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Just go without him?

my car is broken down and he’s have a hissy fit if I took his car

get a taxi? or let him have his hissy fit! his childishness is not your problem you deserve some time out of the house to see friends and family xx

I can’t afford it

I'd be calling
Sister ..mother father brother or my cousins

I wouldn't miss my baby niece's birthday

And he should be ashamed of HIMSELF ! WE ALL DAMN TIRED ...
Self sacrifice...duhhh

unfortunately I don’t have family in the area

no one who is going to the party can come and get you? if not then unfortunately there is nothing you can do if no one can take you and you can’t afford a taxi. xxx

Have ur husband put out for the uber

Like what ?

I'd use he CC & then tell him right after I come back

Like thanks for doing ur part

I’d rather just avoid the fight altogether

well then i’m sorry but it is never going to get better. if you never pull him up on his shit behaviour then he has no reason to stop acting like that x

I am. I just wanted to vent

Aww hell no. I’m not letting any man ruin my plans. That’s my dang niece! My actual nieces bday was yesterday we went to Yumcha my sister booked a table for 14. I would Uber there or get someone to pick me up if I couldn’t drive, but either way Ima be there! The least he can do is drop you off and he can go back home and sleep, you can find your own way home

unfortunately I can’t afford uber and I asked people that were going and nobody responded

I would have planned ahead of time and arrange for a family member to pick me up.

we did. The plan was for us to go together.

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