Xmas

Legos? Or you could take him to a rage room if he's old enough abd let him get the break everything out. Trampoline places?

Is he into sports basketball baseball my middle son is now 11 and last year I got him sports stuff and cars stuff like that

Legos and Pokémon cards, the game exploding kittens, or I got my almost 7yo a dogman card game, there are books too. Diary of a Wimpy Kid books. The Catan board game (fun for everyone!). I’m unsure of this one as I haven’t looked into it but I was suggested a game called cards against Christmas. We have a game called “our family is weird” . Survive. Sweatshirts and sweatpants sets. I know some things that provide a creative outlet can help with destruction urges (I’m autistic and so is my oldest and we believe my others may be as well) when I was little I would slam down on the piano when I got frustrated, but I found that painting and charcoal drawing really helped me. Legos help my oldest and if he’s frustrated with those, he plays with his Pokémon cards or Minecraft figures. Video games are a big “cause” I can’t think of the word right now, but they can bring on those feelings of frustration.