I think as well when mostly all we do is go to baby stuff with other mums it’s hard for it to just happen naturally as our social life is rather non existent so it may take longer to actually find someone we are interested in
Thats kind of where my heads at too. That feeling of wanted to feel like the person I used to be. Before him. The relationship had been bad for so long together 4 years before my son was born but once I had to think about my son too that was it. Now want to kind of get them feeling of myself back and find someone who appreciates me x
I totally get that sometimes I also feel like it feels good to have that feeling of hope for a happy future when you’re even just talking to someone x
Exactly ! X
Me and my babies dad split when I was around 15 weeks pregnant and I started to kind of talk to men again when she was about 2 months old but it wasn’t serious effort I kind of just wanted to feel like the old me again then I got busy with life with a newborn and wasn’t trying to anymore I’m now trying to heal and get over the things babies dad put me through and how he treated me before I try again so I can’t say for sure when the right time is I think it’s different for me everyone and also depends on how things ended with your babies dad x sorry if that’s not super helpful x