Need to rant about my fiancè mothers wife ( she’s a lesbian )

My fiancè mum wife has had a problem since 6 months into mine and my now fiancè relationship it started with little nick picking about things about me eg my clothes I wore one time , basically it was the day before my fiancé birthday 6 years ago and I’m going to see his mum at a pub and I wore a bodysuit ripped jeans and a hoodie and she mumbled under her breath “ she looks like a slut “ bare in mind I wasunt showing much my cleavage was slightly showing but it wasunt like my boobs were fully on show Another time she said to my fiancé “ be careful with her because she’ll get pregnant and leave you “ which is completely false because I love him and would never leave him To my rant every Christmas I get a shit bath bomb set from the pound shop but this year takes this biscuit this year the partner of his mum bought me a 5+ lol bath fizzler set for a five + year old like I’m 23 24 in March next year and she bought me a kids bath fizzler set am I overreacting or am I write
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You're not overreacting, sounds like she's very comfortable w microaggressions towards you, sorry you have to deal w that you do deserve better

@Mimi thank you for cometing I’m just so upset and annoyed

I’d go up to her and ask her what her problem is? Does she want your man? She’s acting like a child and I just wouldn’t put up with it

@Sam if I'm being honest ive really tried to find out what her problem is with me when my fiance asks she justs changes the conversation and a few years ago I wrote her a letter as I'm not allowed in her house being the bigger person I apologized saying if I had done anything to offended her that I was sorry for it and guess what she did with the letter she dudunt even read it she just binned it

@Laura she’s just a first class b**ch then I wouldn’t even engage with her anymore like she’s not there and I’d definitely return that gift and be like no thank you

@Sam I'm thinking about it because who buys a 23 year old a lol doll bath fizzler set for a 5 year old

@Laura Nahh you should save this gift and when it’s her birthday re-gift it 🎁 Honestly she sounds childish as f**k

@Sharnee literally she's up her game this year to worlds worst Christmas 🎁

@Laura exactly! She’s being beyond petty 🙄

Update @Sharnee @Sam @Mimi My fiancé asked his mum today about who bought it and his mum had no idea that was what she bought me and told my fisncè that she's got me something else for me

@Laura aww i’m glad his mom seems to have a heart at least

@Bianca yeh

She sounds like a bitch. I would straight up ignore her, but not before buying her dog shampoo or something for xmas lol

@Aria she is a two faced bitch

I’m petty I’d say ‘I’ve see this is for children, therefore, I felt it would be more appropriate with you’ and give it back. Unfortunately, I’ve went 16 years with someone similar in my life from my husbands side, and it becomes mentally exhausting, issues get bigger and nothing changes but how you choose your words, or don’t react, and it’s not fair. I think speak to your fiancé, let him know you feel disrespected and if it continues you don’t want to be around that kind of behaviour. It’s absolutely easier said than done.

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