Own room

Anyone else feel judged when you say your LO isn’t in their own room yet? (8 months old) & also feel so much pressure to make sure they follow a certain routine etc but can’t quite get it right and then also feel judged for that?! Hate it 🥺
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yes. sometimes I will say she’s sleeping in her room just to avoid comments lol

Yes people judge. But they aren't the ones tending to every wake up in the night, I am. We do what's best for our family not for people who judge

Omg I can hardly get my little one to sleep without being in my arms. Don’t stress about that!

Mine sleeps the first half of the night in her cot (which is in my room) and then after she wakes for a feed spends the second half in bed with me.. shes 9mths and my third baby and I have never even thought or worried about what others would think. Just do whatever works for you and your baby 🫶

Not at ALL. My LO, my fourth, who's 9 months, her crib is still in my room. I also tell, whoever asks that I'm not ready for her to be moved to her room. One of my main reasons, also, is that it's easier for me to monitor her at night. I hear her breathing, moving. It's just me, so I don't have to physically get up to check her. But I don't tell everyone that, it's none of their damn business, lol! Especially anyone who tries to "mom guilt " me. Have confidence in your reasoning for your mom decisions, such as that. We all are doing awesome 😊

@Fern Dratel You should say that your LO is right where his/her mommy wants them to be, very sternly. They'll get the hint that this is the momma to not be questioning 😉

Thanks everyone 🫶 next time someone asks I’ll tell them she is where she needs to be 🩷

Yassss, love it already☺️

@Katrina I get it its just I can deal with grownup fussiness anymore lol

Mine isn’t in there either! Just not ready! (Me not her 😂)

Just remember that, when babies turn into kids, none of this timing stuff ends up mattering! 😊 None of their teachers will say, 'Wow, I can really tell that kid went into their own room at 4/6/8/however many months!` You do what you feel is right. Nobody else has ever parented your specific baby, so they can't compare.

Not at all. Don’t ever let someone else make you feel inadequate because you have different parenting styles.

Again, thanks everyone 🫶 makes me feel better. Her cot is in my room and even that’s hard to get her to stay in there 🤦🏻‍♀️ xx

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