Am I crazy??

My bf is a good bf but he’s always getting upset over the smallest things. I’m also starting to have doubts. Now let me get into what I mean. 1. We were at the store and a buggy was in the middle of the lot. A fire truck was driving towards it so I walked maybe 3 cars away to move it and he got mad cause I walked away and started telling me how I should care more about him than strangers. 2. He complains about everything. I don’t do laundry fast enough, the baby shouldn’t do this or that, or the baby shouldn’t eat this or that. I feel like I can hardly make decisions for my daughter (he’s not the father. No father involved so he’s amazing for stepping up but he doesn’t respect my boundaries or decisions) 3. He gets so mad at my dog. Today he was standing my the edge of the bed and he sneezed and got his side of the blanket a little wet and he started yelling at him like he just chewed something up. 4. He hates my family and my one and only friend I have that isn’t one of his friends. 5. He always thinks I’m picking a fight when I’m just trying to tell him how I feel about things or if I have a problem. He’s constantly telling me I don’t want to be with him or I don’t care about him. 6. I have something that requires meds to help and after my first apt with him they were exposing meds and what I should be on and when I’d want to start. After the apt we were talking and he said if I were to take the meds I shouldn’t blame him if he didn’t want to have kids with me because I’m putting poison in my body. When we first met I thought he was the one. Now I feel like I can’t do anything right around him. Don’t get me wrong we have great times together and when I’m not feeling well he’s a big support. Sometimes I get so frustrated I can’t take it anymore and I blow up. Am I crazy for thinking he’s being too much? Should I end things?
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He sounds insecure and annoying af. Its hard to carry on a relationship with someone you can't even have a civil conversation with. And I don't see it working out if he hates your family and friends.

He doesn’t have to like anyone but he has to respect me enough to not say horrible thing about them. Also he thinks I’m the one who can’t have conversations because half the time I feel so crazy I tell him I can’t take it anymore and that I can’t talk at the moment, even then sometimes he won’t leave me alone. I try to be calm and have a normal conversation but when someone is constantly telling you how your wrong about things or won’t give up till they are right it’s so hard.

I love him a lot but I think it’s time to end things it’s just a little complicated rn. I’m a sahm I have maybe $50 to my name and no car cause of family drama. I don’t have much help with the baby so no one can watch her while I work and if I’m gonna put her in daycare I won’t have the money for much else because daycare is insanely expensive

This doesn't sound like an emotionally healthy man so I would run for the hills, personally

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God he sounds incessant, I'd be ditching him, sorry!

He sounds like nope

Nope

He’s been making me feel crazy. Thank you all so much for basically telling me I’m not

I'm in the same situation and I'm about to give up as well! He is the father of my baby so he would still be involved in there I guess. Same no money nothing on my name like you. Don't know what to do as well😫

I wouldn’t be able to put up with this and I don’t think you should have to either

It’s scary as fuck! No money no job just the baby and my dog. I need to find a way to make money from home for a bit cause I have no car. He was giving me his suv since he got his truck but now that won’t happen. I just don’t know what to do I feel stuck.

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