How would you take this?

So my partner was showing me a video of a sing a long at an Irish wedding (song was in something we were watching, and he wanted me to hear the actual song) I said, "When we get married, can we have an Irish song sing-a-long?" He said "sure," but not in a yes kinda wa you in a suuure kinda way. I said something about him not sounding like he wanted that, or maybe it was the wedding, or both. I was 1/2 joking. He didn't respond. He has been the one to bring up marriage since very, very early in our relationship. Nearly 5.5 years together, 3 year old. He has always gotten odd when I bring up our relationship. I've never known why.

Show your support

He wouldn't be planning on proposing would he?

@Emma, not at all. He has always said he wouldn't until we buy a house, and well, that isn't happening any time soon. He didn't even buy me a birthday present or Christmas present. We are also having issues that may ultimately wind up, leading to us breaking up not getting married.

You need to have a serious conversation with him if you want to get married x

If marriage is a serious want for you then ...you def need to sit down and talk about it. 5.5 years is a long time and if he knows he doesn't want marriage or doesn't want to be married to you specifically then you need to know.

I personally would not buy a house with someone I wasn't already legally married to. 5 years is a long time and in this economy how much longer could it be until you're able to buy.. both are things to consider.

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌