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What was the discipline? You meantion aggressive, I would intervene if anyone idc who they are was aggressive to my child
What happens is when his younger sibling is having a tantrum he will yell. Usually in that moment when he’s yelling, I tell him to use a different behavior than the yelling back-and-forth. My husband went in and decided just to grab on him and yell at him and that’s not helping the situation. It’s making it worse. Otherwise, my husband is going to be reinforcing that yelling every time the younger sibling has a tantrum. I’m trying to decrease that. My son wasn’t doing anything wrong and this is how my husband was reacting to towards him. I wasn’t trying to tell my husband to discipline our son because our son wasn’t doing anything wrong. He was just reacting to his sister‘s feelings in that moment. Which can be difficult for someone who has autism. I have been working with our son to find behaviors that are beneficial for him in that moment, instead of the yelling. My husband didn’t want to listen to that unfortunately.
Not totally wrong but when you jump in during a discipline even when you dont agree unless its straight up abuse, also shows the child they dont have to listen to the other parent. Also that can frustrate the other parent and cause more anger/frustration rather than side barring the convo which solves nothing.