Is he a joke?

My child is 1 and he’s seen him twice since birth

My kids father hasn’t seen them in 6 months and within that time only gave $40. He sent $120 for them and said he wants to see them for Christmas at his family house. This is the kicker, they all jumped me, as well as walk right past the kids in the street. I cannot reach out to them for help because they will ignore it, what is so special about Christmas? It seems as if they want 1 day to gloat then another 364 days of ignoring them again

@Anaise honestly like! What’s wrong with these men 🤯 they want to think they’re special for a day, won’t care the next

My sons father has yet to send money and say he wants to see him often, id take this as a win, give him guide lines and boundaries and set a schedule. If he cant do any of that he is a fool and doesnt deserve to see kiddo

Something's better than nothing not what you might want but still. He's trying

200 for the whole year? he has no sense of responsibility. my partner is only meant to work 5 days a week but finds other jobs to go do... he says the money is for us all and then i dont see a single penny (he spends it all.. nothing to pay for besides his fuel and car insurance and he gets 1.5k a month)! he gets annoyed when i come in to her crying for a whole hour while shes with him if you arent happy with bd then try to cut all ties but if you want your son to know him then im sure you can find a way x

ew what a bumm😭😭😭😭

Find it crazy how some people see it as him trying! lol I spend that on a month for food for him 😅😂

I don’t think £200 is a small amount for christmas? but if that’s ALL he is doing in his claim to ‘do better’ then he’s an arsehole. but £200 is definitely not a little amount of money, regardless of how much you think he spends on other things. Just need to see if he seems to stick with his claim of trying to do better or if that’s all he’s doing, and thinks that’s enough. x