Am i tripping?

Hmmmmmmm. Zip tie him to a chair and confront him in a dark room with a flashlight. Also…. Don’t stand for that behavior, especially from a man. Men are uncoordinated and unhinged girl. But u got this 💅🫧💕

Did she claim the child is his or it is his just like your child is his. Despite he was wrong but we shouldn't degrade our fellow women because we share a baby daddy. Give him an ultimatum

Sounds like it’s you that needs to make the decision with whether or not you want him in your life! Not the other way around…. If you’re not happy with his continued behaviour then throw him out because he will want to stay every single time when you ask him. He knows he can get away with it, he already has… roof over his head, food in his belly. He won’t move, you’d have to tell him to get out xx

even if he’s the one paying all the bills lol?

That’s up to you, you have to just be okay with it if that’s what’s holding you back from telling him to go. It’s entirely your choice, but either way if you ask him to leave and he does then you’re still going to foot the cost of the bills yourself anyway. It’s not an easy situation to be in infact it’s horrible! But either way it’s a do it on your own kind of situation here xx

Idk I say this in the nicest way but why stay with a man like that. Don’t give no one the option to choose between you or another woman. The fact that it’s an option is a red flag… you can leave the relationship. Don’t need to wait for him Unless all you want from him is your bills paid, then you kinda have to detach your feelings out of it and keep it player

My advice is…. You leave and put him on child support… since he’s paying all the bills anyways. If you have family go stay with them until you can get on your feet especially if he’s not your husband.