I'm so angry about my friend being callous towards me when I was recovering from birth

My friend Whitney was being a bitch to me after I delivered. I told her I had a spinal head ache and I was in bed while my husband took care of baby including feedings and doing all chores in house like laundry. She told me *I* should be feeding him , not him. BITCH. 😡 I'm so mad!!!! FYI spinal head aches are results from improper epidural technique. The needle inserted too deep which results in spinal fluid leakage from my back and I had a massive debilitating head ache. I could barely walk without screaming in pain. And she said I should be holding and feeding baby. 😡😡😡 And "baby comes first" NO. Fuck that. I need to take care of myself FIRST before I take care of others. Thanks gGos for my husband he took over all mother duties for 6 full days and on 7th day I was able to do all my duties without pain. I'm just so mad a other women telling me the wrong advice. She told me to get a blood patch and that I was a bad mom for not getting it sooner. 😡 I told her I would wait it out. I also said I recovered without blood patch and now she's not responding. It's like she wanted me to be in pain and not take care of baby. Ugh. I hate these bitches.

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She does not sound like a friend to you at all. Does she have children? If she doesn’t, then she has no idea what it’s actually like and one day, she will realise. If she does, then I’m surprised by the way she is acting. It could be jealousy from your husband helping you so much. Either way, it’s not your problem to solve. The problem is with her and she should not be close to you, because she is not good for you at all!

@Shannon she has 2 kids and posts everything on social media. It's kind of weird. But yea I think she's jealous my husband took care of me and I didn't have to feed fur a while. Go figure. Im just mad I trusted her with advice since she's a mom but just jealous.

@Sylvia it’ll be jealousy. She’s mad because her husband probably doesn’t help at all!

I’m so sorry, it’s sad that you need to hear that right after your delivery. I’m glad you rested, because you are right, you need to be out of that huge pain to be able to take good care of your baby. And of course your husband was the best person to take care of HIS baby during this time. Don’t be so mad about it, it’s not good for you. Just be grateful you have a good husband that share in the baby duties 🩷 And find new (good) friends 😂

She just stupid 🙄 I can't believe there are people who still say it's the woman's "job" to feed her husband. Run far away from these people. I am sorry you had to go through this. Hope you are doing better now

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