We did it!

I gave birth to my beautiful baby girl on the 23.12.2024 at 1.30am weighing at 7lbs 6! The birth was extremely traumatic, I went in wanting to go all natural and ended up splitting myself in half trying to push her out 7cm dilated. I had preeclampsia complications and her heart rate went down so I was rushed into theatre and ended up having an epidural and a forcep delivery. I am so overjoyed to finally take her home after a couple of days on the ward. I’m a first time mum and I just have so many questions. I’m currently breast feeding her and have noticed my breasts are very hard and swollen. Is this normal? She’s feeding really well I’m just alarmed by the size of my boobs 😂 want to make sure everything’s okay and I can continue as things are. I also noticed there were a couple of blood clots in my pad. I’ve had a few stitches down there and I’m just wondering if it’s normal or if I should speak to the doctors about it. I do have to take a blood thinning injection once every day? I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it? I’m sorry I’m genuinely so new to all of this I don’t even quite understand what the fuck happened during the birth 😂😂 it just happened and escalated so quickly I’m in shock. Please feel free to give me the baby 101 in the comments as I’m completely oblivious 😂
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Congratulations on your baby girl! Sounds like it was quite a traumatic birth but I’m glad that you’re both doing well now. It’s completely normal for your breasts to be hard, swollen and potentially sore a few days after birth as that’s when your milk comes in. Mine were huge, I thought I looked ridiculous 😂 they should go down in a few days and eventually after a few weeks/months when your supply regulates they should feel more like they used to before having a baby. When it comes to blood clots I believe they’re normal as long as they’re not bigger than a 50p coin and if they are you should talk to your midwife/doctor about it.

All perfectly normal. As Oliwia mentioned clots are fine unless over 50p (although most my periods are way worse than that post baby 🙈) Boobs will calm down once demand is established. Personally I’d feed from one and pump the other (alternating each feed) that way your partner (if you have one) can do feeds and it also helps should you get any damage (also likely over the year or so) However like ALL advice just listen and then make your own decisions. People always mean well but you do what you feel is best. Things change, circumstances are different etc etc. You’ve got this! I also had to do those injections. I never understood how some injections hurt like made and others just don’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Congratulations! Our LO is 2 now and IMO it just get better ❤️

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