Emotionally abusive boyfriend

When I don’t act the way he wants me to he hold things over my head. And just downright talks down to me and about me. He has a way of roping me in with the promise he’ll be nicer. After all of insults and hurtful words. I’m just supposed to forget it happened. Is he a narcissist? Or am I crazy?

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Yes. That’s a narcissist. I’m dealing with the same thing

And then have the nerve to say you’re the problem

There’s never a resolution with them. He just wants to blame everything on me and never takes accountability for his own actions

You’re not the problem

I know and I just had my 2nd baby in October

You’re not crazy! Don’t let him gaslight then love bomb you. If you can find a way to leave, leave; especially if it escalates into physical abuse. I married mine while he was pretending and he only got worse. It will hurt because it’s your baby’s father, but you need to protect yourself and your baby at all costs. I always say “if you can’t treat me well, what makes you think you’d treat our child well when they do something he doesn’t like?” Because those go hand in hand. We’re at our most vulnerable during pregnancy and postpartum. It’s also the easiest time to convince you that you’re the crazy one. Be safe, and stay vigilant. You’ve got this 🫶

Girl I go through this exact same situation every and it is mentally and emotionally exhausting and draining. Always think they are doing you a favor and never giving you any credit for what you actually do I’m sick of it . Honestly I hate men that are so controlling and selfish