AITA help!

When we found out we were pregnant, my partner’s sister told us she wasn’t having kids at the wedding meaning our baby couldn’t come. I cannot be away from him due to breastfeeding so I will be unable to attend. Should my partner go on his own or skip the wedding completely?

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Why doesn’t she want kids at her wedding, especially her nephew?

I understand not wanting kids there. Can’t predict their mood and if they might cry during the ceremony etc etc. I personally would say absolutely yes to my partner to go to his sisters wedding. Wouldn’t dream of saying no. That’s not to say I wouldn’t be super disappointed myself, but if it was he goes or neither of us do, then he would go 100%.

I understand the not wanting kids at weddings, but surely now baby is 1 and a bit baby doesn’t need feeds for an afternoon/evening? Couldn’t he go with a family member while you attend part of it? Or have baby local/nearby (not at the wedding) just in case!

I’d let my partner go and stay with my baby x

Are you still unable to leave your 13 month old? Does he not have to go to nursery? As the bride I would be disappointed, would expect that for small babies not a young toddler (although I would never not invite nieces and nephews but just saying)

I’ve just been to a wedding with no children and it was great and a nice break ☺️ 100% your partner should go. Now lo is 1 or just over 1 can you leave them for the day time bit and skip the evening part?