I can't tell you how many times my kids have fallen off the bed. It feels awful every time, but your baby will be fine. I promise you.
You are exhausted Mama. She is ok. You have the support of your partner. You are doing so much and you're 3 months postpartum. I think my 2nd was about the same age when she fell off the bed. We've all had situations that we chophouse prevented. You need to forgive your amazing, hardworking, loving Mom-self. I'm glad your partner actively checks on you too.
Please me more kinder to yourself, you aren’t a bad mom and accidents do happen. You were sleep deprived and the fact you have another child and this is the first time this has happened shows what a good/attentive mom you are. I’ve been terrified of dropping my little one and in return everyone told me that their kids fell the exact same way. Sleep deprivation gets the best of us
Your little one is fine, sounds like you were tired, mama. It’s so easy to get trapped in the guilt and what ifs, but she’s ultimately okay, so just take some deep breaths and give her lots of snuggles and yourself lots of love and grace as you work through your feelings. Parenting is hard, especially as a breastfeeding parent.