On holidays I let her eat what she wants. But she makes healthy choices for toddlers. But she can stay up however late on weekends and holidays
I don’t limit but in all fairness he doesn’t ask for much treats. Because normally for parties or we’re at a friends/sisters if there’s treats there and he wants one he can have one. So he doesn’t see just Xmas as treats time. If that makes sense. When we’re SO strict on something they tend to binge at the next possible opportunity. Like my teens have friends that keep a whole stash of junk in their room coz growing up they’re not allowed to have any so as teens they’re binging. Everything in moderation Xx
I wouldn’t say anything he wants or he would literally be living on chocolate but I do let him have a few more treats than normal