Sex is awful 😢

He literally can't finish as he says he can't feel anything, no tightness there at all. He tried to make me feel better, but I feel so ashamed. So sad. I'm just so damaged now.

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Why would he say that to you? How many months pp are you?

7 weeks, but second pregnancy so my prolapse has got much more severe

Hey I’m very sorry to hear that. Take time to rest and heal. Pt may be an option for you but do it for you. You are only 7 weeks pp and he’s lucky he’s getting anything. He shouldn’t have said that to you that’s very hurtful.

I’m so sorry to hear how you are feeling. I remember sex at 7 weeks pp and I couldn’t feel anything at all. It felt like sex would never be the same again but forgot how at that point, it’s still so early! Find yourself a pelvic floor physio and work on strengthening it back up. I also have a prolapse. Believe me when I say you will be able to have sex without feeling this way again. Like the above poster said, why would he say that and he’s lucky to even get anything.

Why y'all mad he was honest? You want him to pretend it's all good and act like he's enjoying himself? The faq? Doesn't sound like he was rude about it at all.

I'm not upset with him. It was pretty obvious something wasn't right as he couldn't climax, and I could barely feel him! Just really pissed off that it's so bad now!