Do you get gifts for adult nieces/nephews?

I see my nieces and nephews once or twice a year when they travel for summer or the holidays, and for the past few years I've given them money for Christmas. They 19 - 22 now and finishing school and all have jobs. Would you still give them a gift or phase it out and just do milestone gifts like graduations? The other adults in my family don't really do gifts or have a big gift exchange and my budget is a little tight. I did still give money to my nieces and nephews on the other side of the family because they are teens.

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Correction: they are ages 19 - 22 now

I buy chocolates

I put no gifts needed because they’re not “needed” However lol My aunts still buy me gifts when I’m in town and will send cards every year. They also give gifts to my kids. Nothing big though. One small thing or something. I got a pair of socks and a tiny journal inside a small wooden box that were alpaca themed. All from the dollar store. But she remembered I love alpacas and thought of me. That’s what mattered.

Personally theres too many kids to worry about adults on either side of the family. We hardly get gifts, and we dont give any. On my side alone, theres 15 kids all 11 and under..4 born since September this year. On my husbands side theres 9 kids. So 24 children total with all but MAYBE 4 (i think just 3 tbh) being under 5 years old. Soo...no gifts for adults 😂

@Kat it's sad that I don't know enough of their current interests to know what kind of small gift they would like, which is part of why I just gave them money the past few years 😩

I might give them something small. There are a lot of small kids in my family otherwise I probably would continue giving them all something. Some of them should be giving my littles ones gifts to be honest 😅🤣 they have jobs

I think my aunties stopped buying us gifts around that time unless we were going to be together for Christmas

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