He may just not have the fine/gross motor skills for it yet. You can do other motor skill activities appropriate for his age to build some of the muscles to help him (can’t think of any off the top of my head). That could possibly help
Interesting my 2 and half year old is doing exactly the same. I did wonder if she wasn’t quite ready yet. I’m so new to all this
@Reagan he can do it when he wants to get undressed, is just refusing to do it for the potty or to let me help him do it
@Tonicha ohh okay does he do it in just underwear?
@Reagan he has done it it when wearing just pull ups, its why we started training cuz he just kept getting naked, but has not when in proper pants, but don't think he's been in just them long enough before he pees in them to pull them down himself
@Tonicha it may be he just needs to get used to it
Is he wearing anything under the pants? If he is wearing training undies, her might not feel wet enough.