How did you know you were ready to try again?

I miscarried a week ago and am still sad, angry, all the feels, about it. And I was talking to my husband about trying again right away. Then I kinda felt guilty about it. How’d you know you were ready to try again?
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I felt like trying again helped me to heal. The new pregnancy will never replace our loss, but it has helped me to move forward. It does come with a lot of anxiety in the first trimester so depends on you but go with your gut ♥️ Although I do think let yourself have one normal cycle before you go again

Your feelings of wanting to try again will come back if you do want too x

Definitely wait at least one cycle. During that time, drink caffeine/alcohol if you so wish, have lots of fun with friends and focus on self-care. You’ll know when you’re ready, and usually it’s after you feel more like yourself again. Sending love x

I’m so sorry for your loss. I miscarried 19th Dec at almost 12 weeks. It’s raw and my moods are so back and forth. It’s so unbelievably natural to have the desire to try again but of course feel so hesitant. We’re going for a stress free approach to trying, no tests, no bbt but just see what nature does. Then if no luck for a few months I’ll start tracking once I’m ready for that side of it all. I guess knowing is just “that feeling”. But please take your time and look after yourself first and foremost 💕

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