I felt like this... Then I started seeing a therapist. We decided to have #2. My heart doubled in size and it's been amazing watching the two of them interact. A cousin was trying to blow a raspberry on her belly and my son (3) pushed him away and said "No! Don't blow her away! She's my sister." and hugged her with his whole body to block him.
@Mee Awww, that’s so sweet omg. Idk if my heart can handle all of that lmao I’m tired of crying because I love my child so much. I feel like I’m going to be a big baby if I have a second child, just crying all the time lmao but that is so amazing, I should just go for it so she has someone close to her 🙏🤍
@danielle Yeah, I would feel more sad bringing another person in this world and getting too old to be apart of much of their life too. I know that would be heart breaking for them. My poor little brother is only 24 & our mom is 67 and really ill. So I can’t imagine how scared he must feel to be worried about our mom and possibly not having her soon.
So sorry to hear that about your mother :(
@danielle Thank you 🥹🩷🩷🩷
I feel this way and although at forty one I feel im too old to have another really - breaks my heart in a way - but in others im glad the decision is made for me