What do you tell people?

I find that as I am pregnant, people assume there’s a father (there’s a biological one, but he’s not involved at all - it was complicated). After much deliberation at the beginning, when I went public with my pregnancy I decided to set some boundaries and tell people ‘the fathers not involved, and that’s all I’m going to share’. So he remains anonymous. I decided to do this so that I can decide the narrative I tell my daughter when the time comes, what’s appropriate/when she’s ready (it will be truthful but what’s rights for her) - and not let her be negatively influenced over the years by what I might feel and say to others now. What have other people decided? And how did it go? I lost some friends because they were offended I didn’t want to share, but my daughter is more important to me. I also sometimes wish I could openly talk about my feelings around it, but I think that will pass in time and the more I come to terms with how I didn’t imagine it being this way - but that doesn’t mean it’s not for the best :-)