Preggo rant 😭 husband basically called me fat

So we were watching Squid Game season 2 (no spoilers in this post, also please don't comment any spoilers) and there's a pregnant character that was on screen, and she's supposed to be 6-7 months pregnant, but she doesn't have an obvious bump. My husband kept saying "there's no way she's pregnant" and "they can't really expect us to believe she's pregnant, right?" and just kept making comments about how she didn't look pregnant. I'm 20 weeks now, and my bump is smaller than it was with my last pregnancy surprisingly, and depending on what I'm wearing, I don't feel like I look super pregnant yet. So I decided to say, "I mean, I'm 5 months, and she's 6 months. Not everyone gets a huge bump right away." Then my husband said something along the lines of: "yeah, but she's petite." I just blankly stared at him, and he tried to back track (and failed) by saying "I just feel like a bump would be more obvious on someone petite." Mind you, I'm 5'4 and again, *barely showing* compared to my last pregnancy. He kept digging himself deeper, and eventually I literally said "go ahead, keep talking!" and our NYE guests laughed. Everybody knew he was in the doghouse. I laughed it off in the moment, but now it's 4:30am and I'm still thinking about it. I had to cut my hair really short due to postpartum hair loss, and he keeps making little comments about how he misses my long hair, saying how my long hair blew him away. Now I'm bloated, pregnant, and have an awful haircut. I'm the most insecure I've ever been about my body in my adult life. I literally told him the other day that commenting on my hair (that I had to cut for literally medical reasons) is just as bad as commenting on my body/weight (which he never has done in the past) and then what does he do?! Comments on my body/weight. I want to f*cking scream!!!!