First time mum

Today is the day I realised my baby daddy hates me. He stopped all communication with me when I was 19 weeks im now 27+3 I’ve been sick since Christmas Eve and was in hospital New Year’s Eve and stayed overnight Today I got my blood work back and it’s saying there’s something wrong wrong with the function of my liver and kidneys, so I reached out because I thought it was important for him to know and his response was Aww and now I can’t stop crying.
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I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine how hurt you must feel! Try to reach out to your friends and family for support. It’s sad but you shouldn’t have to beg for somebody to care! 💗

I’m 32 weeks and just found out that my baby’s dad has been in a relationship with another woman for a year and been going on family holidays with another woman and her kids whilst making every excuse under the sun why he couldn’t be at anything for his own son , sometimes as women we except less than we deserve , our baby’s need happy and healthy mummy’s , I’m not there yet so I can’t give you any advice on how to cope with your situation as mine is fresh and I don’t see a way thru either but you are enough and your baby is and will be lucky to have you

He’s not worth your time focus on yourself and the people who love you. If he doesn’t care that’s his loss not yours.

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but if that's what he's gonna be like then you and your baby deserve far better! Best thing to do in my eyes, leave him in the past and when your kiddo grows up knowing you did everything possible for them, it'll feel like leaving your bd behind was the best thing to do. Stay strong, you've got whatever lays ahead!

My heart goes out to you mama! You got this girl xx

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