Hi everyone 🤍

Ah I'm so pleased to have joined this group! I literally feel like the only mum who's baby doesn't see their dad at all...how are you guys all finding it? Does it get easier?? Xx

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I hope so, due date early Feb and I wonder if it’s going to get harder before it gets easier. One thing is for sure though - we are BRAVE ladies and our children are lucky we’re their Mamas 💞

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super brave!! Massive congrats to you, that's so exciting 🥰🥰 X

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Hey @Anna,
YES, it does get easier. We learn as we go and gain the confidence to trust our intuition and focus on what's important. The biggest learning for me (and I still have a way to go!) is asking for help.
Find the big hearted Mums around you with kids of a similar age and reach out to solo Mums too; they'll get it in a way no other parent can. I have card I framed on my wall that says 'Friends are the family we choose' and I really believe that. It's lovely to virtually meet you! x

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@Anna ah that's really interesting (as I have trouble asking for help too), it's really great that you've manage to challenge that, and have felt the benefits. Do you work full time? It's lovely to meet you too 😊

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I find it really difficult to ask for help too, maybe it’s a strong woman thing 💪🏻 will try my best to start to start reaching out more!

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My 2 youngest don't have a dad as they're donor conceived so so contact

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