Does anyone elses SO do this?
Show your support
Tell him to look in the mirror with those labels
If your bills are paid and your kids have everything they need then spoil yourself because you deserve it. I wouldn’t even pay my man any mind if he told me some shit like that. Especially if I’m always the one to put everyone before myself.
My sister's husband is this way. That's why I get her gift cards to women's clothing stores
Selfish? Sounds like projection
My husband gives them to me
Mine would never do that to me. He would encourage me to get something I really wanted.
This would annoy me but don't let it stop you, this is could be a red flag of control, it's your gift card therefore your money, you should be able to spend as you please..I'd see if he tries to control what you do otherwise aswell. Goodluck
If it's gifted to you, you should choose how and whom you spend it on.
Well your certainly not selfish for wanting to treat yourself! My partner would deffo encourage me to buy something for myself
Nope when my husband gets a giftcard he gives it right to me unless it's a Xbox one lol