Crying after bottle

My LO cries every single time I take the bottle away after a feed or during to burp. I’ve learned to just give him a paci and he’ll be okay. He won’t cry anymore and continues like normal. He is 8w old. I just want to know if I’m doing something wrong. He drinks one bottle of formula a day and every other bottle is breast milk.

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How many oz are you giving him and is he draining the bottle?

he drinks the entire bottle and cries after I take it away😭 it’s 4oz. He’s 8weeks old. Sometimes he will drink 4.5-5oz and he will still cry.

My daughter used to do this until I upped her feeding.

@Sophia if he drinks the entire bottle and cries afterwards I'd say he wants more I would up ot to 6oz and see how he goes x

Drinks too fast. Needs to burp

we burp every 2oz ( he cries when we take bottle away) as soon as he gets the bottle back in his mouth he’s happy lol

we haven’t upped the nipple flow because he honestly chugs it, but I’m scared to give him 5.5-6oz he takes it all then end up vomiting it up bc he is too full😬I just don’t know what’s best

They recommended if baby is regularly draining bottles to offer another oz and see how they get on. Also try pace feeding so he doesn't guzzle down and take in extra air x

I’ll try this thank you! What exactly is pace feeding?

@Sophia try not to be scared, I know it's hard deciding what to do for best and we constantly question if what we are doing is correct, but you'll be fine I would give him an extra oz or 2 and see how he goes, my baby is 2.5 weeks old and drink 4oz every 3 hours whereas my first child would only drink around 2oz at this age x

@Sophia also I would suggest that if the baby isn't showing any signs of discomfort while feeding, just do a good burp after he's drank his bottle instead of taking it away every 2oz to burp him

the basic of pace feeding is holding the bottle more horizontal so the teat is only partially full so the flow is more controlled by the baby. Also let them take natural pauses on the bottle. I found it to help with my youngest as she was a guzzler and had awful reflux xx

omg I didn’t even know I was already doing this😭😂. The nurses taught me this in the nicu and we’ve been doing it ever since. Maybe it’s time to up him an oz 🙊

If you're already doing this then I would definitely try another oz. My eldest was a hungry baby and she was on 6 oz at 8 weeks x

When my daughter was that age and even now with milk I give her 1-2 ounces more just Incase. I think at that age we did 6oz on the regular

I always made bottles based on how much they wanted. If they were draining the bottle I upped it 2 oz. I wanted every bottle to have about .5-1 oz left when they were done

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Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

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Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
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