Rejection
My lil girl is 2 in feb. I do everything with/for her (well try to) However, she never really wants me. Won’t let me brush teeth, change nappy without a fight. Prefers everyone else but me. Bites me, scratches me, hits out at me. Why?! What am I doing wrong. Why does she hate me so much. I feel very rejected by her and unloved.
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She doesn’t hate you, you’re her safe person and the one she feels like she can let her emotions out too. My LB is the same and will chose dad over me and it drives me up the wall & does upset me a lot but then I just think to myself he knows I’ll be here no matter what when he does then want me or even when he doesn’t he knows I’m still there if that makes sense? It’s hard af because we’re the ones that do everything but try not to take it personally ❤️
My daughter is doing the same and as soon as daddy is home he’s the best! It can be hurtful but same as others have said it’s pretty normal they do love us! Because the minute she’s hurt herself who does she come to mummy!
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Don't take it personally, it's totally normally as they start feeling more emotions to act out the worst with their parents especially mums because they feel safest with you. Try to think of it as a good thing that you've created a good enough bond with her that she trusts you enough to let out all her built up emotions.