I just need to get it off my chest šŸ˜©

I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with my second child but this would make my baby dad first kid and at first before me even getting pregnant he would talk about wanting to be a father etc now that the time has finally come he has no interaction with me whatsoever and we are currently living together. Throughout the day he literally doesnā€™t say a word to me and if he does heā€™s just being rude to me but calls it ā€œplayingā€ when I tend to get upset about it like we already donā€™t talk on a regular basis so Iā€™d expect him to be a little more nice to me but heā€™s not most of his time goes to his phone his game and work so when we are together Iā€™m literally just sitting on the couch watching tv while he plays his game, the most heā€™ll talk to me is when he literally wants me to make him food but other than that nothing ! Lately Iā€™ve been feeling like heā€™s entertaining other females because he doesnā€™t even want to be intimate with me at all not even a real kiss literally just would kiss my forehead or cheek and be right out the door half the time I barely even get that he donā€™t hug me nothing but I had found 3 condoms in the drawer at one point & then they all disappeared Iā€™ve checked his work bag when he wasnā€™t looking and jacket and happened to find one then the jacket disappeared for a few days I finally got ahold of it to check again & the condom was gone ! Also lately heā€™s been leaving out for work hours before having to be at work & coming home way later than usual like the other day he came in at like 6 sumn a.m then again another night 7 sumn a.m now here it is 5 in the morning and Iā€™m just up waiting for him to get home after he told me heā€™d be home soon at 1:50 this morning but have yet to get home! ATP I just feel like heā€™s lost interest in me and half the time Iā€™m just here he knows I have no other place to go right now due to me being out of work because of the pregnancy so I feel like heā€™s just abuse that power I canā€™t get around because I have no car so Iā€™m just stuck in the house w my daughter everyday and with these thoughts and feelings I canā€™t get rid of! And itā€™s not easy talking to him especially rn he blocks me out he donā€™t wanna really hear what I have to say without finding a way to make me seem like Iā€™m such the problem idk yall im just in my feelings and sad most the time because of him and then I canā€™t get out to just go see my friends or anything I just feel stuck and unwanted and itā€™s just a hurtful feeling
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Itā€™s just going to get worse girl. Thereā€™s ways to leave and get help until youā€™re financially self sufficient. How long have you been together?

Since 2020 known each other since 2018

Sorry your going through this. Try to solely focus on you and the babyā€™s health. Try to stay in good spirits. Express how you feel and if itā€™s no change babe you have to remove yourself because it wonā€™t get better.. you deserve to be happy while your carrying life. Donā€™t let anyone take that joy

@Tee 9/10 I am truly thinking for me and my girls I tend to try putting my little oneā€™s happiness over everything because they are the ones that matter most itā€™s just sometimes the pregnancy hormones will have me up just thinking myself into a bad place.. I have recently communicated how I felt and just honestly waiting on some real feedback from him but honestly Iā€™m already just at the stage in life and with the pregnancy that I have to put me and my babies first or otherwise Iā€™ll be sitting here heartbroken and Iā€™m a cancer lots of ppl already say my sign is overly emotional but i call it hypersensitive like I just feel things way different than what others may feel

Iā€™m a cancer too 7/8, i totally feel you. And i know your main concern is the babiesšŸ’• we wear our hearts on our sleeves and when weā€™re being vulnerable we just want to be catered to and just heard. I just hung up with my bd after expressing that i feel unwanted and he didnā€™t really say what i needed to hear to soothe my heart, so i know the feeling. You have every right to feel how you feel. Just know itā€™s temporary your going to be ok

Anytime you need to talk feel free to message me mama

@Tee Iā€™m 7/6 lol two days apart ! And I swear they donā€™t get it all we be wanting is that reassurance to calm our minds when it tends to wonder .. Iā€™d just be glad when this pregnancy is over with I feel like this is the most vulnerable Iā€™ve been in my life and nobody hears me and it sucks ! But I definitely appreciate it love thank you and Iā€™ll definitely message you later you seem like a really cool person šŸ„ŗšŸ’•

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