Need advice!!!!

So my partner hates my sister and best friend. I do know why. We live on the same property as my sister. He also hates mynpare ts. They liv here too. It's their property. I don't know how much longer I can take it. He constantly complains about my sister, is rude behind, calls her names behind her back, etc He also complains about my parents. I'm not saying g he is wrong, but it's a lot for me to deal with. We currently can't leave. He doesn't have much interest in going out with me and our toddler, so I go out with my sister and bestie. They come over for games nights sometimes, and sometimes, we go to the main house. My bestie and the fourth friend in our group don't have dining tables, so it's easier at ours or my parents. This causes problems with my partner. Today, for example, he barely talked to me when he got home, napped, was completely uninterested in conversing with me, yelled at our son, etc I have no idea what to do. What would you do? I try to keep them all separate, but it's so hard. I plan on reaching out to our couples counsellor.

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Honestly when a partner can’t get along with anyone in my life I would be wary to make sure they were not trying to isolate me…. And for him to bitch and complain when he doesn’t even wanna go out with you is just ridiculous… I would go to individual therapy over couples therapy cuz I would recommend trying to figure out if this is something you can deal with long term cuz it doesn’t sound like he’s interested in stopping

@Lyss, he has encouraged me to go out with them and do stuff with me. He encouraged me to make new friends, and I've made one through work. He isn't trying to isolate me. He doesn't moan and groan necessarily. It's mostly him getting annoyed if they come over or us hanging out overlaps with dinner, and we don't have dinner planned. Or already cooked, etc We are in individual therapy. I'll be talking to my therapist about this, too. Just thought couples could be beneficial. This has been going on for nearly 4 years.

Well I’m uncomfortable around my in laws bc my bf has embarrassed me in front of them multiple times so I try not to see them much but he is free to see them whenever he wants. I rather them not come over tho but i gotta allow it once in a while. I will try to avoid them by doing something that day being busy . I like to keep a respectful but distant relationship . For me it’s up to my bf to make things better for me and make me feel comfortable around his family but that has not happened so I don’t care much to be involved

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