Hey. Worked with children for 20 years. Unfortunately it is just like that!
The only one I find a bit odd is the menus tbh. But I'm sure if they'd ask they would send you it. If they are unable to feed themselves they should be fed but saying that, trying to feed that many babies must be difficult so I can understand where self feeding comes in. My little one feeds herself and is fed, the nursery are encouraging her to use a spoon at the minute which I think is great
Hey… I’ve worked in nurseries for over 10 years. Feel free to message me if you wanna talk about your concerns x