Does anyone else’s partner constantly tell that they “don’t know why we’re together” or “we should just break up” if so how do you deal with it?
Whenever we have a slight disagreement or I ask him to pull his weight with our children this is the response I get and honestly I think I’m at the point that I don’t care if we do separate now.
I really do love him but I’m so fed up of nothing changing and constantly feeling like shit because of it.
I don’t really know what advise I’m looking for, maybe it’s just to vent.. I don’t know🫣
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I've never had those terms, however i have been told "i was a mistake" and "he wishes he never laid eyes on me" this was about 2/3 years ago but i still remember it and it'll stay with me i think! currently going through a tough time with my partner because im really struggling with our new baby and he isn't really being very understanding. Also felt good for me telling someone else this and knowing ur not alone xxx
No. But I would ask, do you know why you're together? You implied he doesn't pull his weight with the children and he seems to default to questioning the relationship (seemingly, manupulatively), rather than changing. I'd consider making the change for him.
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My one said that he put himself in this with me and like he regrets us. Last year was awful, so at that point, I thought that was it, but we are good now.