Ladies...idk where y'all live. But there are women's shelters or homeless shelters that help women get on their feet...solo. I did it when my now 21yo was 3. It was the BEST decision I made as an adult and as a mom! The shelter helped me get a new DL, mine was out of state. For those that don't drive, they could probably teach you, or other's in the shelter. At my shelter, we all felt like a family after just a few weeks. I ended up getting a job, housing, and free Daycare for 2yrs.
I wish I could give you advice that can help. I can’t drive either unless I have a licensed driver next to me I have my permit. I have 4 kids I’m a stay at home mom my kids go to school and my husband works. But I still feel like I’m a single parent. I have to do all the cooking and cleaning own my own plus get kids ready for bed then for school the next morning. I love being their momma but I feel like my marriage is draining me as a person. All I think about is if I’m doing it alone now I should just leave and do it alone all the time. But I don’t work I wouldn’t be able to find a job that would work out cause I don’t drive. I have to depend on my husband in order to get anywhere and most of the time it’s his mom taking me to appointments for our kids and not him.